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writes:I am not interestd yet in having sex and I am not yet ready to give my boyfriend a blow job. But how else can i pleasure my boyfriend and how do I do that without having sex or giving a blow job???What can you suggest I try instead?
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 May 2011): I suggest you stick to your decision and not worry about sacrificing yourself and your happiness to give your boyfriend some instant gratification. You're under no obligation to compromise here and doing so will set a bad precedent.
No one ever died from lack of sex and you have plenty of years ahead of you to enjoy it. Save it for when you want it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 May 2011): You could try dry humping...
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 May 2011): First of all, Do NOT feel like you have to do anything sexual with him. If he keeps pressuring you and the topic comes up often, I would rethink your relationship and whether he likes you for you or just wants sex. I know how hard it is trust me. Im going to be 22 and I am a virgin and i have a lot of trouble with guys accepting that I dont want to give blow jobs or have or do any oral sex but you know what, I dont care. Ill take my time waiting for the right guy..sorry to preach but I just felt the need to say that. Anyway, if YOU truly want to pleasure your bf and not with a bj, the only thing you can really do is a hand job or rubbing up against him...with clothes ON.
Good luck with everything!
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