A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Okay, I've been dating this guy for a year now, I'm in love with him.Please do not give me the bullshit about how 'You don't know what love is' because both of us have been through hell and are mature enough to know the difference.I'm not like regular 15 year olds so back the hell off. I'm asking for help, not a preaching session. (Sorrrrrrrr)Anywayy!!!! Haaha.Like any woman who is physically attracted to someone, I want him. SOOO bad.I've never wanted someone so bad. I know we'll be together 'forever' or else I'd never consider sleeping with him.I have a few questions. PLEASE answer.1: If I had sex with him (YES I'M A VIRGIN) would the doctors or parents or w/e be able to tell? I don't go to a gyno yet they told us I could only go to that once I had sex. And of course, I DO NOT want to get caught.2:I know WHAT to do and all...but can someone explain exactly how and other things to do? I'm a nervous person when it comes to that and I hae screwing that stuff up.and 3: Any tips on things as far as oral sex and actual sex would be helpful.I've done oral but I still want to know things to make him feel even better.(Considerate I know. :P)Thanks a bunch guys!!!!
View related questions:
oral sex Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
reader, anonymous, writes (26 January 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionbut why do you care then? look, no disrespect but whether we last or not is not your business. its possible, very slim, but possible because my parents have been together since they were like 13.
i asked for advice, if you are not here to answer said question then dont bother posting.
A
female
reader, anonymous, writes (24 January 2009): I respect your opinions, I'm gonna do what I want in the end so it doesn't matter************Why are you on here then? People come on here for ADVICE. Not many people are going to promote underage sex and oh yeah, your still very young and the chances of you and this guy lasting 'forever' is VERY SLIM.
...............................
A
female
reader, Katy.  +, writes (24 January 2009):
 i remeber having these same thoughts when i was considering having sex with my boyfriend, all i'l say is you seem to be very commited to doing so, so if you feel its right then do it if you feel you know you'l never regret it. to answer a few of your questions, i think doctors can tell when they do examinations but in most cases family don't seem to know; why would they? only unles your in excruciating pain which is pretty unlikely.Don't plan things out so much, or the reality won't live up to your expectations, just wait for the right timing and the right place and let the other things work its self out, yes you'l be nervous, i deffinatley was, but if you love each other like you say you do then it will just feel right, like it should be happening, once you get into it then you'l enjoy it much more, and don't worry too much(as hard as it is) just try to enjoy it, once its in then there's no turning back.We didn't seem to do oral, i didn't find it very romantic haha, just do the things that you know get each other in the mood, kiss etc. and if that doesn't work then yeah some oral would be good to relax you both.your question did seem immature but i know it can sometimes come across like that (i'm the same age btw), anyways just be careful, use contraception and make sure you know what your doing x
...............................
A
reader, anonymous, writes (24 January 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionOne, I respect what you said but you don't know me. And it is possible.
It's just we've been through hell with our families. From people doing drugs (not us though), seeing dealers, parents cheating, murder, and even molestation.
I only said those things to tell people like you to keep your opinions about my age and love life to yourself because even though I respect your opinions, I'm gonna do what I want in the end so it doesn't matter.
...............................
A
female
reader, anonymous, writes (24 January 2009): you arent going to like my advice, but you sound very immature from your question, the way you feel everyone is against you before youve even started shows that you dont trust peoples answers, you only want to hear what you believe you should hear.so my input of you two being "together forever" and the fact that this is not very likely may annoy you but i am 20 years old and im in my 4th serious relationship. i went out with my 1st bf for 2years and thought he was "the one" and we'd be together forever, sorry sweetie, but at that age its very unlikey... things change.
and as far as sex goes... if ur asking for advice of strangers, i dont think youre mature enough or ready for sex... it just comes naturally between the couple, i dont personally believe true advice can be given as everyone is deifferent... good luck? becareful??
...............................
|
