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writes: Well I've been with my man for seven years and we have two beautiful children, but our relationship has not been to good for the last year and a half. He and I aruge all the time over the littlest things. When we first started dated it was great, he was affectionate and caring. But somewhere down the line something changed with the both of us. I recently asked him what can he do to help get our relationship back on track? And he responded by saying "doing more activities as a couple." I don't feel that's enough to fix what is gone. My question is what can we do to even come close to getting back what we had? Please help, desparate need of advice. Reply to this Question
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reader, b1sheaba +, writes (30 December 2005):
 You may not like to hear it but your husband is partially right. First, don't worry, everything always works out somehow. Through experience I can tell you for sure that finding something in common to do together can save a relationship. I can't stress how important doing things together are, straight from a professionals mouth. My suggestion would be dancing. It sounds silly, but it can bring intimacy back. It makes him have to care because the man always leads the dance and you'll be amazed at how safe and un-stressed that can make you feel.
No matter what it is, you need to take time for just the two of you. Find a hobby that you both can learn to enjoy and if soon you don't like that hobby, find a new one. This is something just for you two. It is worth the money for a babysitter once in a while. Just a suggestion, but isn't it worth a try. With love and good luck.
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