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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes: Hey, my ex and I broke up like 6 mos ago. I told him that he had to let me go and I had to let go of him too, that we needed not to contact each other (he started seeing another girl, but still kinda would text me and reach out to me). I know he's happy and has moved on, but sometimes I think about him and want to send him a hello. Is this a dumb thing to do? Especially since I broke off the contact? What could I send that wouldn't lead to him thinking I'm trying to get him back? Or should I just forget it?
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reader, angelDlite +, writes (25 September 2011):
if you feel like your message might be misconstrued then just don't do it. it could mess with his head, give him false hope, ruin his relationship with his new girl. no harm in saying hello if you see him in the street but i think to actively 'seek him out' by messaging him is just unnecessary
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