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writes: We have been together for six month and had not sex yet. He is my firstboyfriend and I really like him. Few days ago we almost had sex but I wasn't ready because I feel very self-consious because I hav a little belly. how can you hide belly during sex Reply to this Question
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (7 July 2014):
 well you could
wear a cami all the time
do it in the dark doggy style only...
OR you could accept that WOMEN ARE SUPPOSED TO HAVE A BELLY.
women need 12% body fat or higher to have menstrual periods. That's how we survive as a race.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 July 2014): I love bellies. My wife has a lovely soft, wobbly one I love playing with, the movement of it during sex is a huge turn on too.
OP there's nothing worse than a woman hiding her body during sex.
The most frequent I've come across is women who won't take off their bra or t-shirt and won't let me play with their boobs.
There's nothing I dislike about a woman's body and I pretty much prefer women with a little extra.
What I can't stand though is insecurity, it's a huge turn off. Hiding the best body parts or only having sex in the dark or only when drunk enough not to care is a chore.
I mean can you imagine having sex with a guy you know has a sexy torso but he won't ever take his top off and let you play with it? Nightmare stuff. Try not to be that girl, OP.
If he's gotten to the stage of having sex with you then he's already thoroughly examined your body and likes it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 July 2014): Men love sex, curves are feminine and sexy. To be honest I train and workout and when I'm focusing on my training I hate how my body feels during sex. Like hard and bony and not feminine! When I'm not exercising it is soft and curvy and sexier! So don't worry! The more confident you are the less he'll see. Men LoVE women who have confidence!!!
If all else fails, a corset has done the job for me in the past at making me ooze sexiness! But please don't worry :-)
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 July 2014): That's true men just think sex and not care if u hav a bit of a belly I'm not the skinniest of girls and I have stretch marks and a right belly but my boyfriend doesn't care , maybe try positions that u feel comfy with everyone knows when u lie flat u belly goes fat too maybe that's a starting point, lights out apart from a couple of candles gives u bit of extra confidence as u can't see everything clearly but hell be looking into ur eyes ,and makes it romantic too
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reader, person12345 +, writes (6 July 2014):
 What guys think about during sex is usually some variation of "oh my god sex I love sex this is awesome." What guys don't think about during sex is "wow she's got some cellulite/love handles/tummy going on."
Everyone is self conscious about their body sometimes, but there is no way you can enjoy sex if you are worried about how your tummy looks or if you're fat! He wouldn't be having sex with you or dating you if he didn't find the way you look sexy, try to relax! Most women have a little tummy! I've even heard guys say a bit of tummy softness is incredibly sexy and feminine.
If you really can't push it from your mind, try to lose the tummy fat by tracking calories with my fitness pal or similar sites and ab work (you can find some great ab workout videos free on youtube).
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