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writes:I have been seeing Michael for two years. Things were good.. we had a huge fall out and were apart for a few months, because he had told me that he didn't want to be in a relationship, etc., we talked here and there... then he pursued me again and told me that he just didn't want to rush into things and wants to wait a few more months until I'm done with school(only a few hours away, and I am very dedicated to school) to be in a relationship.. I'm confused.. Is he just playing games or does he mean what he says? Betsy,Alabama Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 February 2009): Thank you for the advice.. I think your right. Thanks!
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 January 2009): I think men usually say what they mean, it is women who think they are more complicated than they are.....if you are satisfied being in a non-relationship with him, then fine, if you are not, I wouldn't hold your breath.....he sounds like he is not wanting to be in a relationship, he wants to be single, at least until you are done with school and will know where and what you are going to be doing for work.....he sounds like he is trying to have your best interests at heart and doesn't want to get too serious so that you can live your own life first and foremost and so can he......I would put him on the back burner and focus on school if I were you....and if another guy wants to take you out, by all means go on that date!
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