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female
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30-35,
*erNameIsAlice
writes: I have quite big vaginal lips or clitoris or w.e it slightly comes out over the outside (only slightly)..I don't know what to do because im scared to have sex because they will think its disgusting, is this normal or not??
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reader, Stroller +, writes (16 March 2008):
Hi Alice,
We all tend to be a bit self-conscious about these things. When I was your age I worried like heck that my dick was too small. Now I know that it's "just the perfect size" (as one g/f has told me) and that if you're inventive it doesn't matter.
Honestly, I suspect you're getting this out of proportion (ha!) - in your mind, I mean. I'm sure your body's proportions are fine! If you take a look at naked girls on the internet then I'm sure you'll find some with small "neat" little bits, but there are plenty out there who are normal - like you - too.
Sure some guys are turned off by flappy bits, but other guys are turned off by fat, or my Jo-lo bums or by skinny girls. Some like big books, others little ones. If you _are_ genuinely disproportionate - and, honestly, I doubt it - then there are guys out there who'll worship you for it. But chances are the guy who loves you will care about your mind and your laugh and all that other stuff, and your bits are just one more little thing to like about you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 March 2008): Hi Hunny
Everybody is shapped differently its like the body shape hunny some people are taller some are short fatter thinner rounder or in my case square :} So dont worry its normal sweetheart...You could to pop you mind at rest go to see your doctor or nurse and they will tell you everything is fine TAKE CARE HUNNY WITH LOVE N HUGS MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 March 2008):
babe every woman is diffrent.i have quiet large lips myself and its never been a problem.im also a lesbian so have seen quiet a few vaginas to no that yours sounds perfectly normal.if you are really concernd i suggest talking to your gp.but im sure you hove nothing to worry about..
all the best
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