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writes: hi. my first post. right well i'm 16. there's this girl at school i fancied for 3years. i just been quiet about it. now i'm really crazy about her. i look at her and mine pics everyday which we took at school. we are good friends. she might of realized i liked her in these 3 years. but this is what makes me different from all the other boys. i havent yet admitted i like her. i'm scared our friendship will be ruined and i dont think after these 3 years i wont be able to suddenly forget about her. i dont think she flirts extra with me or talks online with me too much. any things i could do you check if she likes me etc. i cant really tell her to go cinema with me and other mates because she never has money. and i know thats the truth she doesn't make it up. so is there any other way? last time i even paid for her even though she didn't let me. i'll do anything for her. her face appears everywhere, during the day, even at night in my dreams.i would be ever so grateful for anybody who could give me advice. thanks for reading
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 August 2006): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionby the way my best friend just told me (his the only person who knows i fancy her). anyway he told me she is goin out with another boy. she's been all quiet about this and in fact the girl i fancy has been goin out with that boy for 2months. it really felt unpleasant and hurt when i heard about that news. i guess i gotta move on. but i'm not sure if i can do that, i was really hung up on her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 August 2006): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for your reply both of you. i appreciate it. i've tried to make the girl i fancy happy by trying just buy her things etc. but i realized i'm wrong, thats just tryin to buy her out. well basically i've got alot of cash as i've worked online for a few years. so i have the latest computer, phone clothes etc. but i'm not the type to flash my cash about. could there be another way i could find out rather than askin her out yet. i really want to do that when i have no options left. she went out with this other boy a few months ago. they broke up because exams came up. but she said she likes him. but now they are not going out with each other. so i dont know the real problem. is there any other way i could test to see how much she likes me? because what i keep thinkin is that if she fancied me she would talk to me more often, try to grab every opportunity to talk just like i do. i have 2years of college with her. i dont want to ruin the friendship either. she also lives 2 minutes away from my house. so friendship is a big problem here. sorry for writing alot here. i'm just writing everything inside me. i'm tryin to talk to other girls as well meeting new mates of my mates just in care i find a better girl but it seems impossible! i've got myself at a dead end!
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reader, b3x  +, writes (27 August 2006):
 Aww that sounds so sweet hun.
Ok, 3 years is a long time for you to like someone! Wow, you've done good to keep it to yourself! But its getting to a point where now the only thing you need to do is tell her right?
Try and talk to her just one on one, just tell her you've liked her for ages, tou think about her alot and you think she's a lovely girl. Bit of advis don't really include the bit about liking her for 3 years or dreaming about her, its not relevant plus you don't want to scare her off, but if you think she'll be ok with that then tell her!
Honestly is the best policy, but look on the bright side, if she doesn't feel the same way about you, don't worry about it, be greatful that you have her as a mate, and that you can still be around her!
I wish someone had liked me for 3 years! Its kinda touching to know a guy does! What I do know is that your really hung up on her so don't feel gutted if nothing ever happens, your only 16, you've got plenty of time to find other girls!
I do hope things work out for you, you really like this girl I can tell, Just tell her how you feel! You'll never know unless you do! xx
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reader, SoNzZz +, writes (27 August 2006):
 Hey..i know what your feeling...even tho im a female!! ok heres what i personally think you should do...she syour friend ryt...n u lyk er so 1st ov all i tink u shud tell her hw u feel. datz most important. and then from there...see how she reacts...if she likes you...go for it!!!! but remember...friendship is a very valuable gift. u`d rather be friends with somebody than nothing hey...? think about dat aswell. if she dont like you and afta your friendship goes topsy turns....tell her she should have been grateful u told her. datz also most important in a friendship...honesty and trust. just tel her knw hw u feel...by txt...email...onlyn....phone...anything...!! gd luk hpe diz helpd
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