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writes: Does he like me? I went on a first date with this guy last weekend. The date went great and he even asked if I would go on a second date (which I said I would). He then kissed me goodnight. He called me the next day just to chat. I called him once and left a message saying he left some things at my house and just what I was up to, and then he called me back a couple of days later and said he had to figure out a way to come to my house to get his stuff....and "hang out or something" were his words (he lives an hour and a half away). He mentioned nothing about our "second date" or hanging out this weekend, and just told me to call him. I'm the kind of girl who likes to be pursued by a guy and was just wondering if he still likes me since the last time I talked to him it didn't seem like he did anymore. What is going on and should I call him? Shouldn't he be trying to find a way to see me again? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 August 2006): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI live with my parents so I don't think that he wants to try and get lucky with me. But thanks for the answer, and good advice.
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reader, DrPsych  +, writes (27 August 2006):
 Everyone is nervous after a first date...it is a tense time! I totally understand that you don't want to feel like a stalker ringing him and pursuing him. Just sit back and know that what will be, will be. He maybe trying to get to your house because he sees that as the start of a 2nd date, or he maybe a bad boy who sees going to your house as a short-cut to your bedroom...time will tell what his motivations are with you. Basically if men like you, they will knock your door down...and if they don't or they are weighing up their options then they are a little cooler. Wait for him to call but don't give him that much head space at the moment and keep an open mind...after all it was just one date! Good luck
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