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30-35,
*ilveknifex
writes:She told me she loved me, but she isnt ready, what do i do?This girl i love very much we had gone out for almost 2 months but she realized shes not ready for a boyfriend, mainly because shes still going over the getting overproxess of her ex ( they went out for 3 years) and i realize THIS IS A long time, but over the tiome ive started talking to her, she calls me all the time, when she goes to work when she gets off just randomly, and we talk on the phone every night, shes told me I MEAN so much to her, and just last week she said the most amzing words to me "i love you" but she said shes not ready for a realtionship still, and she didnt think she would find love as soon as she did, with me after she never thought she would after her ex i guess, so my question to people is, whats the best way i can give her time, i really wants this to work out and i love her so much, when i told her i loved her she told me to make sure i ment it because they were strong words, and she does beleive i love her and im sure she loves me, its just an awkaward siutation like if two people love each other they should be together but if shes not ready yet i respect that
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reader, Santashelper +, writes (8 March 2009):
 well she might just be scard. you should still do what you 're doing and dont bring up it up. she will tell you when she is ready
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