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writes: I'm datin this guy for about 5 months. We have only made out with each other and we spend almost every day with each other. He calls me every morning and night and always texts. He says he loves me a lot and always talking lovey dovey with me. We move like if we're actually together.However, when we met he and his gf of 3yrs were on a break. Then he broke it off with her after she found out about us, and we continued how we was. Now he's telling me he's not ready for a relationship. I asked if he has any intentions of going back with her or this decision had anything to do with her and he said no and that he'll never go back with her. He says he knows the kind of guy he is and he's afraid he'll hurt me and everything he has been thru. He knows he's not ready for another relationship right now. He told me it's up to me on what I want to do from now. If I just want to be friends he'll understand. Now I can't help but think, I mean if he really does love me as he says...he'll want to be with me. But then I kind of understand the situation and maybe he needs some time alone. I love him and really don't know what to do. It seems that whatever I choose to do I'm the one that loses out. Cuz if I stay we continue with our 'thing' and if I leave I miss him and any opportunity I may have with him in the future. What to do? Any advice? Thanks a lot!
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reader, shania  +, writes (12 March 2006):
 Basically...what he is saying is he doesnt want to be the bad guy and finish with you 1st...thats why he has left the ball in your court,but he hasnt given you any option...but to finish with him.If he really loved you...he wouldnt want to finish with you...but he does.So if i was you,i would break it off with him and just walk away...i know its going to hurt like hell but you will only prolong the agony if you let it drag on.There will be other guys out there who wont mess you around...let this one go...you deserve better.
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reader, shania +, writes (12 March 2006):
Basically...what he is saying is he doesnt want to be the bad guy and finish with you 1st...thats why he has left the ball in your court,but he hasnt given you any option...but to finish with him.If he really loved you...he wouldnt want to finish with you...but he does.So if i was you,i would break it off with him and just walk away...i know its going to hurt like hell but you will only prolong the agony if you let it drag on.There will be other guys out there who wont mess you around...let this one go...you deserve better.
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