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He thinks I'm more experienced than I really am. Would it be off-putting to tell him the truth?

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Question - (11 March 2006) 1 Answers - (Newest, 12 March 2006)
A female , anonymous writes:

Hi,

I am an 18 year old girl, I have never had a boyfriend (and I am a virgin) because I never met the right people. People say I am very attractive and I get a great amount of attention from boys at university, people tell me I am beautiful and cute.

Right now I have really strong feelings for someone who is quite a "bad boy" and he has mixed views about me. He assumes I am experienced but am quite a good girl at the same time. He is attracted to me and there is a possibility of us becoming a couple. He likes innocent girls but as I said he is fond of messing around. He loves being a bad boy.

My question is, if I told him how "innocent" I really am, would it help in him respecting me and developing protective and loving feelings for me (that I want)like I have for him, or would he just think I'm weird? Is it considered weird for a girl to not have had a proper boyfriend, a kiss and sex at my age, however pretty and flirty I am?

I don't know how to approach him.

Thanx

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (12 March 2006):

hi,

i know what your going through. people think i'm more experienced than i am. but i think that if u do really like him and trust him and he likes you it shouldn't matter how far you've been. if he likes you as much as it sounds like he does he wouldn't care, from my point of view i would tell him but let your heart decide. xxxxxx

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