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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:please help me im stuck and i realy need some good advice. iv been with this man for about three yrs and have known for about 14 yrs . and he has loved me all of this time. but i cheated on him more thin once. so he told me to move out and so i did. after about a week he had his ex moved in with her to kids. we would still see each other. off and on for about 7 mounths. after a while i got tired of that. and ran in to a friend whos married and wants to leave his wife because she cheated on him. he told me that he wanted to be with me i just dont now how to feel anymore. and now my ex wants to get back together with me after every thing thats happend and wth her there wanting to be with him. and steven telling me that theres nothing going on between the two of them.i realy dont know what to think. my mind is telling me to let him go and move on . but my heart is saying stay and try to make it work, please some one help me im so sad. dont know what to say or do anymore.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 June 2011): Indeed I agree with the other readers, you need time for yourself and to look at your values and goals in life ans also how a potential man would fit into your life and what type of person he might be in character.
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reader, Anastasia  +, writes (9 June 2011):
 Hey,
I think the first thing that you need to do is get "definitely" single. Clear all the potential boyfriends from your life and just do some soul searching and pull yourself together. I have this theory that I want to share with you....I always look at relationships like a socket....you being the socket...if there is someone in your heart or in your life...no one else can come in...I don't think that either of these men are good for you...I think you need to let them be and move on with your life. Find someone who is single, has no drama, and is willing to give you the respect and love that you deserve...but you also need to respect yourself...so my advice...get empty....take all the plugs out the socket and stay empty...find you...learn what you want in a man with no drama....love yourself, make yourself happy and THEN you can think about being with someone.
You seem very scattered and confused and going back and forth...stay single for a bit.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 June 2011): I think you should give yourself some much needed time alone to grieve, reflect and regroup.
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