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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:i met this guy the other day and we kind of started dating or something like that. I live in a really small town and well everyone knows everyone. So when i told my best friend (he's gay) i was dating this dude it seemed like my friend knew something about him and eventually he said it. Apparently there's some theory about the guy i'm dating being gay. The thing is that my best friend is friends with his ex girlfriend and it seems that he (the guy i'm dating) never tried to get physical with her, so that may be the reason the rumor about he being gay started. Besides i think he's a virgin or something like that so it just increases the rumors about him. I really like him and i don't know what to do. Maybe this is just his ex girlfriend trying to get back at him or maybe it's true. i don't know what to believe anymore i know i shouldnt believe in stupid rumors but i've been trough this before and i refuse to do it again. I know what it feels like to be someones experiment to try and figure ot if they're gay or not. I even asked him directly if he was gay. He told me he wasn't and that he really liked me. And he even told me that his ex had been saying he was gay. What should i do ?? And now i'm worried too that me asking him if he was gay had ruined my chances with him. I didn't wanted to ask him but i had to be sure. Like i've said before i have been trough this before and it's awful to have someone playing with your feelings for their own benefit.Please help me.. what do i do ??
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 June 2011): Look it just seems his ex was so up herself that she thought him not touching her was because he''s gay
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