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writes:Right so my bf and I have had a big rollercoaster of a reationship. But the happy times have always outweighed the sad in my eyes, so i never gave up. However I did start to feel I cared more for him than he did for me, because I still did all the little things like making little gifts and buying chocolate for him and he just stopped doing it for me. Eventually I got to the stage where I stopped caring so much. I don't mean I stopped loving him. I just stopped feeling the NEED for him. I have been enjoying my life. Weirdly now, we've switched and now he adores me, and says stuff like he wants to marry me and misses me so much when I'm not there. He never used to say this stuff. What's happened? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 December 2010): I go threw the same thing with my boyfriend we Been together for almost two years.But this is how it goes,when you act like you don't care they want you more but when u start being nice they start going back to there old ways,,so me I just act like whatever with him just to show him this is how you act with me,and he doesn't like it, cuz guys dont like that feeling when u show them that u dont care. and don't give in keep ur guard up.Hope it helps goodluck!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 December 2010): you got him in a good place, but dont go too crazy make sure you chase him on occasions otherwise he will go the opposite way and treat you like crap
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 December 2010): What happened is you stopped chasing him and he is now chasing you. Never chase a man what you did is right girl ! let him be the one to impress you not the other way around good for you ! he realized what a good thing he has and dosent want to loose it. I'm not saying to ignore the guy or never do anything speacial for him just that its good to keep him on his toes sometimes. good luck :)
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reader, Krazybihh +, writes (29 December 2010):
What I think might have happened is he saw that u stopped needing hi
And he felt as if he was losing you so now hes just making sure that u don't go elsewhere.
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