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male
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:I've been with my girlfriend for 3 years. We're both in college and we've have a ton of problems. 2 years ago i kissed another girl and she never really got over it and we still get into talks about my past with girls (too many before her ((14)), cheating 1 time, making other dumb mistakes because i was immature etc) but the point is this was all forever ago. I'm ready to move on and be happy with her, we don't even say we love eachother anymore and all my friends think we're not right for eachother.I'm tired of all the crap and drama with the relationship and the bad is outweighing the good. The problem is the good is great I mean when we are clicking its heaven and I want to say I love you and marry her she's awesome but when it is bad it is horrible. I'm a senior in college and I want to make sure I'm not just screwing myself out of my 20s by dealing with a stressful but at the same time sometimes meaningful relationship.I want to be single to see what else is out there but at the same time I feel so connected to her that I want to be with her.I appreciate all your thoughts.N
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reader, bich-15  +, writes (29 January 2009):
 everyone has different views on cheating, but personally i think your girlfriend needs to get over it if she cares about you and wants to carry on the relationship with you. my ex slept with someone else, and i gave him another chance, we put it all in the past because of our love for each other! i think you both need to sit down and have a serious chat about trust, love, and whether you both feel like there is a future for you togeather!i wish you all the best!!! here if you need to chat!from bich x x x
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