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anonymous
writes:I was going out with this lad for a year. Recently we have just ended the relationship and I've recently found out I'm pregnant. I don't know how to tell my family as I've only just turned 16. He also takes cocaine so I don't know whether or not the baby will be okay. But last week I found out he was going out with my cousin! It's really got to me and hurt me really bad inside to know someone who I loved is going out with someone I'm close too(NOT NO MORE). He knows I'm pregnant but I don't know why he is putting me through this??
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reader, skyebabe +, writes (23 August 2007):
 the baby will be fine aslong sa you dont take drugs whilst pregant they are your family and they will surport you thouh everything coz they love you and will love the baby if you plan to keep it my sis had the same problem but she was 15 these things happen if planed or not they will understand you just have to come out with at list you are the right age and not under 16
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 August 2007): have you thought about what would be best for you,not to sound selfish but right now your main concern is what is best for you and your life. hate to sugest it but maybe you should think about whether or not you actually want this baby. if not then dont bring it into this world. and no matter how bad you think your parents will react to it im sure they'll be supportive andhelp you in whatever decision so you should definately tell them. or tell one at least if you would prefer to talk to one rather than the other. as long as one of them or a responsible adult family knows. you shouldn't deal with this alone.
PS: as long as you dont take drugs/smoke or drink heavily then your baby would be fine. his taking drugs should'nt affect your childs health.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 August 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionits good to know someone else has been in the situation, I think my family will totally disown me . I dont no whether to go through the pregnaney. I think i wont be able to cope on my own and I start college soon! :'(
I just dont know why he has done this to me :@
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 August 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionits good to know someone else has been in the situation, I think my family will totally disown me . I dont no whether to go through the pregnaney. I think i wont be able to cope on my own and I start college soon! :'(
I just dont know why he has done this to me :@
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 August 2007): Baby! Just tell them...It will take some time however they will love you and the baby. My parents love my daughter more than me...or at least that's the way it seems!Good LuckI was in your place...I know!
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