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writes:hi, I need some advice as I feel paranoid and depressed at the moment. I am in a LDR with my wife of 5.5 years... we've been living apart for the past 2.5 years.She's been recently very cold to me... never says anything nice or writes nice emails. She used to end her emails with "love"... now it is just her name.Via an email account I created for her, I found out she has been using the birthday of a colleague of hers as a password for recent stuff...I am now paranoid and I keep thinking she is cheating with this other guy... but I have met him and he is 10 years younger than her...Any advice?
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 April 2009): If you dont mind me asking, why is it a LDR?
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 April 2009): Yes my advice is don't be in a LDR. LDR are fail. You need to see your wife at least 4 times a week. Preferably every night.
At the very least you can't expect her to be as monogamous as she would be if you were physically in her life.
Unless you are in the military? But even still. I was talking to this guy and he says the secret to holding down a military wife is babies. That just cements everything in. lol..maybe so..maybe so.
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