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writes:i got back with an ex two months ago but before i got back with him he had slept with a number of girls and i had slept with one other boy, when we got back together we had constantly been having unprotected sex. just recently i found out i had chlamydia. does this mean he has cheated on me or is it from the girls before? HELP :S
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 July 2008): Please have a look at this link:
http://www.medicinenet.com/sexually_transmitted_diseases_stds_in_women/article.htm
It is very INFORMATIVE.
Best wishes and Lots of SMILES.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 July 2008): As you are aware of the fact that you have Chlamydia, I sincerely hope you are on treatment;Chlamydia if untreated can have lots of longterm health problems for you;It is normally recommended that all sex partners be tested. I suggest your present and previous boyfriend to be tested.
I am adding this link with information for you:
http://www.cdc.gov/std/Chlamydia/STDFact-Chlamydia.htm#HowGet
I do hope you have learnt from this not to have UNPROTECTED SEX; it is so dangerous and very risky; now it is an STD, for which there is treatment BUT it could have been AIDS; for which there is NO CURE; PLEASE do take good care of your health!
I suggest you and your boyfriend should discuss this and he should also realize how serious this is;hopefully he will realize the risks and dangers of sleeping around with various partners and the risks of UNPROTECTED SEX;
If he loves you and respects you, he will not cheat on you and will not risk your health with unprotected sex; you have to be very sure of your partner and his fidelity and have both been cleared for STD's and AIDS before you should ever consider having unprotected sex;
I suggest you ask your boyfriend to be tested.
Best wishes and lots of SMILES.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 July 2008): If he was faithful to you the first time you went out, then it's probably from the girls before. However, it is impossible to tell where the virus could have been contracted... You could have even caught it from the one other boy, but it's more than likely that he did and that the girl didn't know she had it and he could have passed it on to any of the girls he slept with after.
I take it that you have been to a clinic to know that you have chlamydia and that they are treating you for it. If not I suggest you do as they can help you. :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 July 2008): It could have come from him or the "other boy" you had sex with. It is hard to imagine how a woman can develop chlamydia any other way than unprotected sex. It is an STD. It's symptoms are near the same as gonorrhea when in the genitalia and can do the same damage if not treated. Chlamydia can also live in the throat and rectum... and without symptoms.
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reader, Yos  +, writes (26 July 2008):
 Chlamydia can have serious complications, so make sure you see a doctor as soon as possible.
The fact that you have it doesn't necessarily mean he's cheated. He could have caught it prior to you two getting back together, or you could have caught it off the guy you slept with.
I do suggest you reconsider having unprotected sex, and make sure you have some awareness of the sexual activities of your partner(s) prior to having sex with them. Do you really want to be having (unprotected) sex with a guy who's been sleeping around having unprotected sex with a bunch of other girls just recently?
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