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female
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anonymous
writes:The guy ive been seeing for a couple of months suddenly ended things with me.We had been seeing each other for three months and everything was going well as far as i could tell. We're at university so had spent three weeks apart when we went home for Easter but spoke over text nearly everyday when we were apart. When we came back after the break i saw him in the first week and everything was normal. Then a few days later he became a bit off over text and five days after i'd last seen him he said things were not working between us and that we'd be better off as friends. I don't understand how out of nowhere he would just end things. We both have important exams coming up in just a week so i was wondering whether he ended things to concentrate on exams? but he could have just said we needed a break to concentrate on exams. I haven't had any contact with him since he ended things (its been two weeks) i don't know whether to contact him after exams have finished or just leave him alone?
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 May 2016): Am sorry about what he did to you, it happened to me, not to long ago, do not contact him, a woman friend talk me into contacting her, I wish I didn't do it, now I feel like a fool, don't give him , the power that he would feel like he would have over you, he would only think you are a fool, he doesn't care how he hurt you, he is cold hearted, some one down the road will do it to him, but I hate to say it you won't see it, I hope your heart heals , stronger, don't be his friend, if he try to talk to you in the future tell him go get ffff. Good luck
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reader, Ciar  +, writes (7 May 2016):
 Just leave him alone. He says he doesn't want to pursue anything further and he shouldn't have to repeat or explain it.
Contacting him would make you look desperate.
Let him go.
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