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writes:me and my boyfriend been together for 3 years we have a son who is gonna be one years old, my boyfriend is 37 im 21, me and him been on and off for awhile now, i never really been single for very long.... i dident like to be at the time... my boyfriend was there through the good and the bad but lately it seems to be more about him then me,i don't have friends because he always thinks ill leave him for them even girls, i cant really even talk to people on the phone because he gets mad sometimes... when i go to work he bitches half the time because i dont call him, or because he thinks im doing something other then working... the reason i don't call though is because im usually busy.... im not really sexually attracted to him as much as i use to be, so when i tell him im tired or that im not in the mood he gets mad and said im his gurl that i have to... or guilt trips me into it.... he is a very nice guy never cheated on me but for whatever reason the love i had for him is not there, i love him but not in love with him...if i were to leave him my family and especially his will have something to say about it... i don't think i can really deal with seeing him with another girl either.... i met someone recently who seems to be a real nice guy but i honestly just want to be single for awhile, people keep telling me to think about the baby also witch makes me hesitate...i dont know what to do.... i know he loves me alot and cares but i dont think he can see my point at all if i told him.... please help
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (9 December 2009):
It makes me laugh when people describe a controlling psycho who pressures them into sex and then says "He's a very nice guy."
He is not a very nice guy. He is a controlling jealous guy.
Leave and take the kid with you.
Do you really want him growing up learning that this is how you treat a woman? No, be single and teach him to respect women and that no means no.
Being a single mum is very doable. You will have friends and support and you will be SO MUCH happier as soon as you walk away and get your friends back.
Good Luck!! xx
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