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writes:Hi,I really would like a relationship as it has been a very long time since I last had one. I've just not been interested in getting involved after the love of my life broke up with me. But now my interest is returning, and it's now something that I would really like to have again. I miss having somebody to chill with, and treat as somebody special.But, my problem is; I may be going to University in September, and while that is a while away, I'm not sure I want to get into something that may have to be cut short.What do you think I should do? I mean, here I am on a Friday night sat at home on my own (all my friends are low on money!! :o), when I know full well that there will be loads of nice girls to meet out in the city this evening. But I'm hesitant to chase them because I'm considering what may happen ahead of time.Any advice would be good. Thanks!
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reader, Moviefan  +, writes (9 February 2008):
 Yeah thats understandable. I dont like being hurt and dont like hurting others but if things do turn serious you can always try to make things work long distance or have them come live near u if they will.
I hope everything works out and i wish you good Luck, glad i could help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 February 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionGosh, I had hoped for more advice, but thank-you Moviefan.
To fill you in, I won't be going to University for atleast another 8 months or so. I think you make a good point about having fun, but I guess I'm just concerned that something will turn serious, and then if we have to break up, things will be even harder.
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reader, Moviefan +, writes (8 February 2008):
You probably should just wait until you go to collage if that is in the next month or two. But if its much more then that then you go out and mingle a bit. Have fun. And just because you are going a little far away doesnt mean a relationship you start where you live know will die, you can keep them together as long as youu try to see them at least once a week.Good Luck.
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