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writes:Ready for sex all the time but the wife is tired or feels bad or something most of the time.I want to do sexual things all the time. She thinks her weight is a problem which is minor really. It happens to the best of us. I love her boobs but she won't hardly let them out to play.What to do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 February 2008): Personally, I think you should talk to her honey. Tell her that you love her boobs, and that she shouldn't be self concious. It seems like this is the problem here - that she doesn't like how she looks - so you need to build up her self esteem. Tell her how beautiful she looks. Say she looks great for her age. When she's putting on her make up in the morning, tell her she doesn't need it. Just general comments to boost her confidence will make her feel better :] Also, sometimes it's easier for people to have sex within an hour of waking up (after a lie-in preferably) so they have plenty of energy. Maybe make her a nice coffee or drink (a glass of wine?) to help calm her, or keep asking if she's ok and doesn't feel ill during the day. If she does, make sure she takes something or suggest she goes to the doctor if she's always feeling unwell. If she's just saying that she feels ill to keep from having sex, then this is sure to show whether she is or not. But whatever happens, just treat her gently and with love, compliment her regularly and build up her confidence, then you never know what might happen :] good luck.
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