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writes:Hey everyone,My BF and i have been together for 4 years. He broke up with me once before and then asked me back and i accepted. Then last year around September i found him talking to some girls online that he met online on a social networking website. He was talking to them online and 1 on the phone. I found him sending/accepting nude pictures. When i caught him he totally denied but FINALLY confessed. He said he did it b/c i was always going to sleep at night instead of talking to him. He said would never do it again. I accepted and felt guilty. It hurt but i said it was OK and he seemed sincere about it. Then I found him doing the same hing again this year around February. But it wasn't as bad as last time. He had just recently reactivated another profile and talked to a bunch of girls online, no one on the phone this time but sent nude pictures. So he said sorry and would never do it again. and once again i felt guilty that i wasn't doing something right, however i thought i was doing better since last time. I mean i really care about him a lot but i do have a hard time being affectionate because of past things. But i am trying i want him to be happy i don't want to neglect or hurt him. So i said OK again.But then 3 weeks ago he broke up with me. He said something like i am tired of this. I felt really bad the first week. I called him, told him i missed him and that i wanted to see him. He hurt me bad so I stopped. Then in the last two week in occasion he called (i didn't pick up) he sent me a couple of emails. Then this weekend he called me, texted me, IMed me a bunch of times saying i miss you, i love you please talk to me. But i didn't reply, i didn't know how. Then he got mad that i wasn't replying and said ok whatever sorry for bothering you bye. I feel bad for not replying and i do want him back but i don't want to get hurt again. I love him but i am scared. I feel he takes me for granted. Don't get me wrong i love many many things about him. He is a wonderful person and has a good heart. and throughout these 2 weeks not once did he say he was sorry or he was wrong. So my Q are: Is it wrong of me to want to hear him say sorry? Should I respond to him? Does he REALLY miss me?Would it be a wrong decision to take him back?I know ultimately it's my decision but i'm not sure if i have made the correct ones before and i love him so much but i don't want to get hurt. Thank you everyone for listening. [:
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