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writes: hey guys! just a few (kinda weird) questions on giving oral sex. my friend was saying something about putting pop rocks in ur mouth right before you give a guy head and that it feels good for them. i dont see how tht would feel good... sounds painful! lol but guys, or girls if youve done it, is that true?how about if the girl has a tongue ring? does it make a different kind of sensation for the guy? a good or bad one? any difference with no tongue ring? a few of my girlfriends have said that giving oral sex is degrading and gross... but i dont think so and they always say im crazy for doing it. why would they say this when (i suppose in my opinion) it is a common part of a sexual relationship?is swallowing prefered? why? will guys get less out of the experience if you dont swallow? will they be disappointed? why do some girls (not including me) think swallowing is so gross?thank u!!
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reader, bharat mehta  +, writes (4 December 2009):
 let me add something, and make it a good tips.
In Upanishad, [ it is also known as Vedant] which is collections of philosophic statements. One such statement about sex is this, ' Pleasure [anand, in sanskrit] is the only subject of sex organ'
On basis of this truth; that sex organ is medium of expression of human pleasure...Now see, and learn to read the meaning and morality of pleasure, already written in the texture of its nature. This required extrospection as well as introspection also to decide the morality and also to improve the quality of sex life one live.
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reader, bharat mehta +, writes (3 December 2009):
sexual activity;- touching to penetration- by oral, manual, or vaginal, is required to be define as these activity are means? or goal.
if sex itself means pleasure, then pleasure is goal. And, if pleasure is goal then certainly touching and penetrations by any ways are means...and not goal.
Pleasure is also objectively definable, by observing the state of sex-organ...if these formula apply, then anyone can make right judgment about its application
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 November 2009): Some girls find it gross to swallow because the taste isnt that nice (too salty) and not many guys are disappointed if you dont swallow they leave that up to the girl to decide mostly unless they get really turned on by it or something (which can be true by the way).
My EX use to have a tongue bar so when ever he wud go down on me i cud feel it, i have to admit it did feel better only because it gave that extra tickle.
My mate also told me that he likes it when girls have tongue bars in because it does give them a slight tickly feeling aswell,
oral sex isnt degrading or gross its fun and you get to experiment new things with your partner. However, i do believe that it should be shared by both partners (its not fair to suck your partner off and then have nothing yourself lol)
anyways just an opinion
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (25 November 2009):
You have a few questions there.
First of all, only do what you feel comfortable doing. Never be forced.
Secondly, it's each man to his own. Some guys might like one thing, some like others. You just need to find out what your guy likes. And if you're comfortable with it, then do it.
And personally I don't really care if a woman swallows or not, but some guys might take it personally. They're usually the ones to avoid, because they don't respect you.
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