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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Could do with some advice and stories here from women who have dated an ex's best friend. My ex and I had a very complicated relationship, it didn't work out, it ended on very bad terms. However through out the relationship and indeed before, I have always been good friends with his best friend. After I broke up with my ex, it was his best friend who was there for me - meeting me for coffee to make sure I was ok, texting just to check up on me etc, and eventually it turned out that that was because his best friend had feelings for me. His best friend and I shared quite a close moment at the weekend - nothing happened, not even a kiss, but there was chemistry and it was one of those moments when you just catch each others gaze and you get butterflies. I am potentially weighing up the pros and cons of maybe seeing this guy. My ex and I sometimes talk but nothing like what we used to and he's off pulling lots of other women, usually front of me. I think it would be really interesting not only to get some advice obviously but here from other women who have been in a similar situation and have been with their ex's best friends.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 September 2008): I dated my ex's best friend, who also happend to be my best friend's ex. We're married now and happier than ever!
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