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writes: Help me Please... My ex left me because one girl says he is pregnant with his baby. At that time my ex left me without any explanation, leaving me nowhere to go. I knew it from our friend and I was really hurt.Then after 6 months I got my new boyfriend and we stayed for 4 years up to now. Now that I am working I found out that my ex is also working at the same place. At the first time I saw him he is getting my number, and I don't give any.Until one day, I started to get lonely and thinking why don't I give my number. Then one time I wrote a letter for him, asking if he gets mad of not giving my number. Then it started when he wants me again. He wants to court me, he wants to go out and date with him. I just want to say to you fellow that I love him for the second time, but I also love my present boyfriend. But there is one thing I am afraid my current bf. I am also having problems with him. When we were in 2 years, I found out he has another girlfriend. That time he keeps on denying it, but the fact is he loves somebody and he loves and cares for me too. And another thing is he enjoys the company of his female friends more than me. I think they are more important than me.Actually my ex, did it before we have a relationship, so I think that he has no fault. The only fault is he did not explain to me well and leave me because I know he cannot explain...Now my problem is: who is the perfect mate for me??? Please kindly help
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reader, Monroe +, writes (31 May 2006):
 Hello. Right are you ready for this; once someone cheats on you, then they are not worth the time of day. You feel like your 'in love' but trust me if you were, you wouldnt have to ask anyone for help because you'd just know. The boy with the baby has got enough problems of his own so let him deal with them and the other boy, well, if hes willing to fight then give him another chance. But a lot of your so called love has to do with them not being 'perfect'. We often are attracted to the ones we have to fight more for because they ARE more interesting, but wouldn't it just be nice to sit down one day and think 'what do I want?' 'I am worth more than this'. You want someone who isn't necessarily prince Charming but soemone who will make you smile uncontrollably and you having the satisfying feeling of knowing your doing the same to them. Just put you first for once ok.....hope i've helped
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