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Problems with penetration...

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Question - (20 January 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 21 January 2010)
A female Pakistan age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I'm just married about one month back. My problem is that when my husband starts penetration, i feel intense pain, although i enjoy foreplay a lot but intercourse does not give me pleasure at all. I want to ask if i need time for this or there could be some actual problem. Please reply soon and help me. Thanks

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (21 January 2010):

Explore the vagina with your finger or your husband's. Very gently.

Use a lubricant such as liquid paraffin whilst inserting a finger. Many women find using a local anesthetic jelly ( such as 2% Xylocaine) also helps, as it numbs the area and reduces sensitivity.

Enjoy :)

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (21 January 2010):

A doctor may be able to assist you with an examination to determine whether you have an actual medical problem causing pain during penetration.

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