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writes: Dear Cupid, my gf and I have been together for almost a year now and things are going well. The inly problem that I can see with us is that she not arroused easily. She likes to have intercoarse but unforunatly takes a long time to get arroused if she does even at all. I was wondering if anybody could give me a few tips that i may not have thought of. I have tried the basics to massages and lots of kissing in other places than the mouth. I just need ideas that i have not thought of and are not too too kinky. Thanks for your help!
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 August 2006): What woman doesn't take longer when compared to a man, to get aroused?
All you need do is give her body more attention...lick, suck, kiss everywhere...listen to her responses...remember what does it for her...then in the future...you stimulat her senses.
Touching and caressing her while on the couch as you watch a movie. Kissing and touching. Slow...slow...work it up.
Have you thought to read up on it in your local book store?
Check out:
http://www.articlealley.com/article_8274_35.html
http://ca.askmen.com/love/love_tip_200/228_love_tip.html
http://www.the-clitoris.com/n_html/n_fantasy.htm
http://www.liveindia.com/massage/Genital.html
http://www.coolnurse.com/orgasm_female.htm
http://www.netdoctor.co.uk/menshealth/feature/helpwithorgasms.htm
I suggest the "let's work on this together" approach as some sites have horrid sex ad's and pornsite links and that will not help whatsoever.
Go to a bookstore with her. Go to the right section and ask her to not be embarassed.
Talk to her. Work together.
Good luck.
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