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writes:I'm 42, and re-married since my wife left me for another man 5 and a half-years ago. I'm 42, my wife's 43.Recently, I've been having trouble with my wife's daughter from a previous relationship - she's been trying everything to get my attention sexually, including sitting on me naked whilst I was watching Police Camera Action on TV!She's been going on and on at me about having a baby with me, which is just vile, and I've told her "no way in hell is it going to happen" but she insists it will.She's 20, surely she should be enjoying life not wanting to have a baby and children by now??I've talked to my wife about it but she just can't seem to see that there's a problem. My attempts at communication just didn't seem to work.The next time I talked, however, she did pay some attention, and had a word with her, and the frequency of my stepdaughter's sexual attention towards me decreased for a bit.However, whenever her mum's not around, she's going on and on about me about having sex with me and having a baby with me and then pretending it's the result of a one-night stand.I feel like telling my wife [her mum] about this, but she's away at the moment with work on a training course up North.I am really at the end of my tether here - she can't move out for financial reasons anyway, and I'm loath to kick her out, as she's usually a good person, but it's this obsession with having a baby by me that I find worrying and upsetting.Please help me, Peter Reply to this Question
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reader, califnan  +, writes (19 September 2009):
 Thank you for your inner strength in this matter.. It is also troubling that your wife has not shown more of a willingness to help you in this.. Your step daughter is 20 years old. Is she working a job? I know she has a problem - but it would seem that all you can do is think of ways that she can occupy herself.. i.e. employment, internet education, etc. Unfortunatly, at this time - you may find it necessary to build a barricade aound yourself -such as watching television in the privacy of your room, with the door locked, etc..
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