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*hellycg
writes:Hi Everyone, well its been a long time ... and what fun we are having... my life is back on track .. me and my partner are having a ball - we love being with one another ... its great couldn't fault it however, there's one thing that's niggling at me....MY SISTER ....When she found out that I was back with my partner, she went ballistic - she said that he was a weird and a freak said I was sad for being with someone like that and wanted nothing more to do with me!! I replied back saying Thank you you have your opinion I have mine!! she hasn't spoken to me now for 3 months or more, however, before she vented her anger I passed her some work I couldn't do - Guess what folks she let me down, big time, she started hurling abuse at me via text and telling my partner to Pipe down, so he text her and asked what the problem was ? no surprise there was no reply until the next day when she started hurling insults to my partner and making comments about his lifestyle which she knows absolutely nothing about, he gave as good as he got may I say - and rightly or wrongly I feel good about it, he stuck up for me and said she doesn't deserve a sister like me, then we had her partner call my partner and threaten him !!!! unbelievable, I have reached a point in my life where I really DON'T WANT anything else EVER to do with my sister ever AGAIN. Am I being horrible, I am a sensitive soul.... but feel like im being treated like an right idiot....
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reader, Sageoldguy1465  +, writes (19 August 2012):
 Siblings are funny creatures..... We want to be sure to stay close to them... because we share DNA with them... BUT, .... sometimes they can be SO IMPOSSIBLE!!!!
Give your sister a chance to correct the problem that she has visited upon you.... AND, if she does, then put it in the past....
IF she is such a jerk that she can't let it go... then let HER go.... and get on with your life.....
Sometimes.... siblings are a**holes, and we needn't tolerate them....
Good luck....
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 August 2012): Think she's trying to tell you something without actually telling you. My sisters b/f tried it on with me more than once,he disgusted me,I did not tell her, but made it clear i could not stand the man and never went to see her while she was with him, that went on for yrs.Could be your sister has a reason to dislike him.
Your NOT goin mad keep your distance from her, she has not treated you right.
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reader, Stayc63088 +, writes (19 August 2012):
 Well she obviously doesn't like your partner enough to sever ties and relationship with you. We don't know why she feels that way towards your partner but it's clear. She said she wants nothing to do with you and acts awful when you do contact her so there's not much else you can do but keep her out of your life. If she ever decides to contact you with an apology for her actions then you can try and repair the relationship but that may never happen. It's very sad it had to happen but plenty of people have a falling out with their siblings. Don't think you are insane just move on with your life without her in it.
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