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anonymous
writes: I am 18 years old i will be 19 in one month. I am a virgin and have never kissed a girl. I am over weight. I have glasses and a lot of acne. I am unable to find a job. I have low self esteem and all my so called friends take advantage of me and laugh about me behind my back. I was molested at a very young age by my sister. I have an addiction to heroin, and painkillers which has made my mother and father despise me, and want to kick me out of the house. To top it all off i have no one to talk to about my problems becuse my friends and family will think down of me if i talk to them and i dont have money or insurance to seek psychiatric help. I just want to know is there anyone more pathetic then me? and is my life worth living because i know it is only going to get worse.
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reader, wisdomiselusive +, writes (13 March 2010):
Dude,Screw every body - don't do anything illegal - but you need to get a bit nasty, a lot more selfish and get a bit of attitude.Nothing wrong with being fat - antifat is silly fashion at the moment.Of course eating healthy is better for you and will help you to be happier because your body needs nutrients to function properlyAlso you young - these feelings are very normal and even happen to beautiful people, skinny people - heard of Anorexia Fat is not the problem.In South Africa, traditionally, in both black and white cultures fat men are the successful ones - and they get the chicks - believe meIn the UK, England, some of the the best comedians are fat and they get the chicks - believe me.You got to get some attitude - Like Biggy Smalls dude.Anyway - you dont need a bird - Biggy concentrated on his music.And Biggy consumed many drugs I am sure.Dude - Al Capone said - first you get the money, then you get the power, then you get the chicks.You must just do this - First I get the attitude, then I get the thing I like doing and can get good at, then I get....... ANYTHING I WANT!Dude, drop the drugs - I know its virtually impossible, but you got to try.HOW DO YOU KNOW Things WILL GET WORSE.You dont know that - even if you get thown out - it might lead you on a path to a good life.You got to knock the drug habit, please man.I earn $45 000 and I still work in peoples gardens to get good exercise and work in the fresh air to counter sitting behind a computer all day.There is always someone who needs something doing for a few dollars.Its amazing how things will change - I promise.I know its hard in the the US at the moment and often all the time for many people, but that make Americans strong people.Shove 2 fingers up at the world - not your family, but everyone else and the drugs and get out of that pit - its not that deep.Good Luck man
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