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36-40,
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writes:I have got this strange problem. I am in a relationship for 1-1/2 years. The problem which my bf says I have is only that I dont talk my heart out to him or make conversations. When he tells me abt things which I have done wrong or I have fault with me, I tend to keep quiet but he wants to speak. I have no idea as to what to speak to him that time. He gets frustrated by all this and says that my keeping quiet may lead to us getting separated. Can anyone tell me what is my problem that I am not able to talk to him and what are the things which usually couples talk since this is my first relationship ever. So I have no idea as to what I should do. Help!!!! Reply to this Question
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reader, BadAsh6705  +, writes (28 November 2007):
 Try to remember to say something nice that you think about him at least once every day. When he sees that you are saying these things on your own without him having to ask, he will feel more appreciated. Guys feed on compliments and they are not like women as we get compliments from people more often it seems than men...maybe he is just insecure about how you feel about him. When you appreciate something he does, make sure you tell him and aknowledge it then, and he will feel special.
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