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female
age
26-29,
*5 and Pregnant.
writes:Im new at this Advice seeking, But Just recently I had sex, With my friend's ex boyfriend, I told her what had happend and She was completley Understandable about it, Which Really suprised me, She said He wasnt "Her property" Anymore, But I still felt horrible, Later on after telling her, I started thinking about the few night's that me and Him hooked up, I was drunk, and very irresponsible when It came to using a condum, We had sex 5 times, And Im almost positive that Im pregnant. I don't want to jinx that I am, But Im already showing signs, Such as morning sickness, Missed period, Sore nipples, Mood swings, and Lazyness. When I had talked to him about it, he had told me he knew i probably am. My only doughts are, He is not responsible once so ever, We both live the party life, and Wasnt thinking about our actions. He told me he would be there for me and the baby, and That he would get a job, and An appartment, Im fifteen going into my sophmore year of highs chool, and Im not ready to take on a child let alone my grades,he on the other hand is 18 and Already graduated. My parents are very lenient, But something Like this would tear the family apart, They already have NO trust in me. Let alone taking on a child. I live the freedom life, and having a baby so young would change everything for me. Im to young, and Have so many goals I want to achieve in life, Having a child would just ruin my career outlook. and He tell's me he is going to be here to the fullest, because he knows what its like not having a dad in your childs life. He tells me he want's to marry me when Im 18. I believe his word's. But Im really not ready. I have no choice but to start preparing for the baby. I just need some advice on how to do so. and How exactly I should let my parent's in on what I have done. I really don't need to be lectured about how stupid I am, because I already know. I just need some advice. Please Help.
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