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writes: I am pregnant the same time as my mother and i cant tell her please help me?? i am really scared as amy father will really kill me and also i am still in college as well as my boyfriend we both have part time jobs wat cn i do,?? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, RedAthena +, writes (26 May 2011):
First, take a DEEP breath. You have a VERY BIG decision to make before you tell anyone ELSE.
Have you told your boyfreind? Do plan to KEEP the baby? DO you have alternatives to consider?
If you make a choice, you will need to be a responsible and mature person and live life honestly. If your choice WILL impact your education, your relationship, your family and your finances, you MUST be a responsible adult now.
Eventually, the truth reveals itself. Do you want to be the one to CHOOSE to be honest or have it come out later and appear to be an irresponsible Liar? Which is worse?
You have a life now inside of you that is YOUR responsibility. You have to make a choice for THEM too.
Best Wishes.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 May 2011): If you are planning to keep the baby, you have to tell her sometime.
Your mom might even be happy for you, as she might like the idea of the pair of you being pregnant together.
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