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writes:Hi, I am 20 years old. I have been with my boyfriend for a year and a half. We are having a baby any day now. My problem is that we have been fighting so much lately. The fighting has mostly been about small things, but there have been some bigger fights too. For example his ex fiancee. She's done some horrible things to him through out the time that we have been together, but now all of sudden its like he wants revenge on her or something. He constantly brings her up. Well usually its only a few times a month( or once a week), but this week it seems like he brings her up every day... So today he brought up something about her its always something negative, and I just kind of rolled my eyes and asked him to stop. He got very angry and went off saying something ot the extent of she's ruining my life. ( which this year has been true... its been pretty bad. She's made false claims about him and has been dragging him in and out of court based on things she's made up. She really does not want to let him go.) Anyways I told him that I didn't want to hear it today... but I really didn't. I'm nine and a half months pregnant, seriously about to pop and I don't want to hear about his ex. Maybe I shouldn't have said it? Was it wrong of me to say? We have just been fighting so much lately... I feel like I'm starting ot fall out of love with him becasue of all this fighting, even though I really do love him. But I don't want to bring our baby up in this kind of environment if we are going to quabbling all the time. I don't know what to do. Any advice?
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 January 2010): No he does not have any children with her. Its his ex that won't let go, not him, but because shes's done so much to him this past year, its like he wants revenge on her all of a sudden. So I'm just sick of her and sick of hearing about her because she just does insane stuff. They were together for several years, then she cheated on him and they broke up. After they broke up, its like she went off the deep end. I mean like serious psychosis. So I understand why he's upset with her, dragging him to court and stealing from him, making things up and lying about him so she can take him to court and god so many other other things. He just always brings it up, and I'm getting tired of him always bringing her up. But its not just his ex, we've just been fighing a lot in general about small things. Things that normally shouldn't bother us. Like putting food back in the fridge when you take it out, or cleaning, etc. Small stupid arguments. This has nothing to do with the baby. He wants our baby, and he loves me. He really does love me. But I feel like I'm falling out of love with him because we have been fighting so much. Its just frusterating and I don't know what to do. I'm not looking for pity or sympathy, I'm looking for answers. Advice please???
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