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Pregnant and confused in relationship!

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Question - (4 June 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 7 June 2008)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

please help I've been dating this guy for a while and am 6 months pregnant. I feel either I'm wasting my time or his. He is not being faithful.

He says he wants to share a life with me but doesn't want to be married, yet refers to his parents as my in-laws.

Please help! Am I wasting my time?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (7 June 2008):

I agree totally with "eyeswideopen" babies deserve to be planned! However, as that may be, you are having one in 3months and you should now plan the best future for yourself and your child.

Do you love the father of this unborn baby?

Can you see a future with this man? If already he is unfaithfull?

Are you living with him now? Are you staying with him for emotional and or financial support?

I urge you, please think carefully do not make another mistake.

Plan your future, you must have other options, think about what is best for you and your baby!

Best of wishes!

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (4 June 2008):

eyeswideopen agony auntAhem, shouldn't have all of this been sorted out before you allowed yourself to become PG? That being said, looks like you wait to hear any wedding bells from DAD or decide to be a single mom. Babies deserve to be planned, you've got 3 months to get your priorities straight.

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