A
male
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:I don't get it. I love women, perhaps too much. I am a college student and haven't had a girlfriend in years, but occasionally have a random hookup. I am very passionate, especially in bed (of course), but I think that people are mistaking this passion for being gay. I often compare myself to other guys, but that is just because I am extremely competitive and try and see exactly what women want. For some reason though, I think that people think I'm gay. I'm naturally a self conscious person and have been since high school. This whole thing is ridiculous though, because I am certain that I am not. A couple of months ago, I explored the idea of "ok, maybe they're right and I'm bi-sexual." But then I thought, well I masturbate exclusively to women and I love the way they smell, and I think that dudes smell like fucking shit... ok, I'm not bi.Is it possible that I love loving women so much that guys don't understand it and think that because I understand womens' emotions, feelings, and passions then I must be gay. Please tell me if this makes any sense, I'm tired of this shit. Reply to this Question
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reader, Honest Answer +, writes (22 December 2009):
 Maybe you are just infeminate. It doesn't mean you are gay. If you know you aren't gay, then don't worry about it.
Jeff
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 December 2009): I've never been one to analyze the behavior of men to state that they are gay until later in life. The traits I find that make a man come across as gay are the mannerisms of the typical gay man, the manner in which he expresses himself and the way they look at you. Now, when I watch tv and see someone exhibit some of the traits I think to myself that that person is probably gay. Perhaps, you are exhibiting some of these traits and calling attention to yourself because of it. It's time to become self-conscious of how you are coming across and fixing the problem. Perhaps, you have been raised by women and picked up some of their behavioral characteristics.
I don't understand why you need to impress upon us your passion for women. Normal guys are normal because they ARE naturally passionate wether they express it or not.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 December 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the question Your answer has been very helpful- male reader, anonymous. No wonder a lot of these idiot "alpha males" think I'm gay- they just don't get women like I do. This has been very reassuring and I appreciate your input. Oh, and by the way- I can't usually get women to squirt unless I'm on top, so with that in mind- you're an idiot.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 December 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI only questioned it because other people seemed to, so I wondered if there was something that I just wasn't seeing in myself. Definitely not attracted to dudes though. I'm just naturally a passionate person. It just seems to me that a lot of people my age aren't used to seeing passionate men, unless they are gay. I'm passionate about making women passionate. There are times when I feel cocky because I know that I am better at making a woman's thighs shake than some other asshole at the party. I probably just have an inferiority complex or something.
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reader, fishdish +, writes (22 December 2009):
 maybe they're just jealous or trying to eliminate their competition. or maybe they picked up on your questioning your sexuality yourself? or, did you only question your sexuality because other people were, or was there something else to it (attraction-wise)?
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 December 2009): If you act all emotional they will think that.little No body hair.High voice .Cross your legs when you sit.if you are not very confrontational territorial.Look up what it means to be a alpha male and I'm guessing you will find you are not there.The other type of male is called beta male he's the sensitive girly man which isn't bad.You will wind up attracting the alpha females.Girls that act all tough like men will love you.THEY MAY WANT TO BE ON TOP MOST OF THE TIME THOUGH .
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