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*nehottmama_21
writes:Hi, my name is [Mod: Removed to protect Identity]. I need help from someone. I'm going thru alor right now over my baby daddy. He broke up with me in feb.of 09'. And we were together for almost 4 years. We have a 2 yrs old son together. Well I tend to have a jealousy problem I need help with and my ex told me over and over to stop being jealous. Well it got the worst of me and I kept being jealous. I thought he didn't love me or appreciate me. Until he left me cuz I was controllong and jealous over pretty women in person or on tv. I now know I was wrong. But he will not take me back for nothing. I wonder if there is any hope for us again and to be a family. We did custody battles and he won. Cuz my son was living with him at the time. I was going thru a lot. So now I lost my son and my ex is seeing someone else. Right before he met up with an old dating buddy. Me and him were seeing each other, thought we could take it slow. But out of the blue he texted me and told me he met up with someone he use to date and they decided to go off from were they ended. I was sooo hurt. Cuz I did so much for him. I took jealousy classes and tryed my hardest to show him that I changed. And that I wanted to be with him and that I loved him dearly and wanted our family back. I didn't show no jealousy. Everything was going good. For about a week, and that's when he ended it by telling me he rather see this other girl instead of me. I'm so hurt with confusion. He won't talk to me at all. Not even about our son. I don't know what to do. If there is anyone who been thru what I did or can help. Than plz write back. I need answers. I want enough courage to forget about him. Or get advice to get him back. Thanks to all
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reader, mingohere +, writes (12 December 2009):
I whent through the same thing with my ex.we was married for 13 and a half years,but fought every day.always telling me i was cheating and i had to hold my hand up so i couldnt see the women on the tv.even when we whent to walmart i had to walk with my head down,if i looked up,all hell broke out.i put up with it for all them years because i loved her anbd we have 3 sons.thought everything was ok and to come to find out she was cheating on me and has been the hole time.so its over now for 4 years and ive moved on.it was hell to live with her and u can learn to stop doing that u just have to make yourself do it.i dont think u should get back together until you have gone out with a few guys just to make sure its what you want,but i say move on.
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