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writes:okay...so my ex has been horrible to me...and then things finally stoped...and it got soo bad my mom had to get involved...and so i miss him...and its been almost 2 yrs and im not completly over him or us...and i dont get what i miss about him...he was really mean to me. like he would always make fun of me and bring down my self esteem...i loved him i really did. and there is not one day where he doesnt cross my mind. i have tried like 10000 times to block him out of my life and move on...but its like i just cant. i want to let him go i do! and i want to find a new person to love. i dont know what to do anymore...like i have changed my number...deleted him on facebook...ignored him in person. and none of it seems to work...i geuss what i am asking is for some help and guidence. i need some advice to move on from him and never go back. i need help. please help me!
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reader, kayla20  +, writes (28 July 2009):
 some times when you love some one it is really hard to get over them time is a great healer there is nothing you can really do to get over it just give it time.when a boy is mean to you it makes u want them more and i suppose in that sense it is even harder to let go.i was with my ex for 4 years we had a baby together and everything he cheated on me made me loose my confidence and i was constantly unhappy thinking about moving on from him and it took me ages to dump him even though he had put me in a bad situation but as soon as i done it 8 months ago i havent cried iv stayed strong kept myself busy and kept telling myself e was just a bad part in my life and that i dont need him to carry on my life i mean obviously he was my first proper love and you never forget them but even if u cant be with them theyl always be in your head one way or another.try and put it to the back of your mind i no its hard but its been 2 yrs for u and even tho it may be difficult your find someone who will treat u soooo much better and love you for who u r and then yourl b happy again.everyone goes through this its just the way you have to deal with it good luck
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