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writes:I broke up from my girlfriend 8 days ago, last Monday, after an argument. The thing is, I'm still madly in love with her..I met my now ex through a friend of ours. She kept telling me how well suited we'd be together, so we were introduced to one another. We just seemed to click from the start, got on so well together and we had a bond which I've never had with another girl before.She was really my first love, so I really did/still do love her alot. Eventually, after a few weeks, I decided to ask her out and she said yes. We were together for a year and a half and so happy together, I honestly thought I'd met my soul mate. I met her family and tried to give a good impression, and I was later told they liked me and thought I was a nice guy. It was truly amazing, we never argued or got upset with one another, everything just seemed to be so right. That was until last weekend, Halloween. She had decided to go to a friends Halloween party, which I was more then happy with. I trusted her with my life. Everything was fine until the Sunday when some of her friends began to spread 'rumours' or the truth, I'm not really sure. They told he that she had been telling them that things had changed, the relationship just didnt seem the same anymore and was thinking of dumping me. I was also told she had saw another guy when out one day and thought he had 'nice hair'.Obviously, I didnt think anything of it, because I'd believe my girlfriend over everyone. But she changed and began to start acting weird. She wasnt being her usual self and I could tell something was wrong. Finally, after a big argument last Monday, we both decided to split on what I said wanted to be a break so we could think things over then consider getting back together. Unfortunately since then, she's not given me a full answer when I've asked her to date me again and now, she's rather good friends with the guy who I was told had 'nice hair'.I was told they were just good friends and most probably wouldnt get together, which I have no reason to argue with, but I'm just kinda heartbroken right now, even after a week of thinking and trying to move on. I kind of made the mistake of having a go at her post-break up because I was emotionally hurt and wanted her to feel how I was feeling. It was a mistake and I apologized, but she said she wants to move on and most probably doesnt even want to know me.We're both trying to move on with our lives, but I dont want to be gone from her life forever. She just means too much to me. At the least, if we could just be friends, I'd be so grateful. It's just hard to try and make up for the mistakes I've made and I just dont know what to do anymore. Can anybody help me?
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 December 2009): whats up man,The fact of life is that you experience heart break at least once. Think of it like this my friend, If one door closes a 100 different others open. Give it time, if I were you, completely cut off all connections and she'll realize what a mistake shes made. I know it's hard, im going through the same thing right now, but you just have to hold your head high and just keep that self confidence up.
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