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age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:I just turned 16 and whenever I masturbate, I can only climax if I think about women and having sex with women, but when I am not masturbating, all I can think about is men. I love actors, and I fantasize about actors practically all day and I get so excited when I think about them sexually but as soon as I start masturbating, I just can't reach that point or have it feel great without resorting to women. I never think of women sexually unless I am masturbating. I don't want to think about it and I hate thinking about it. Im not in some denial thing either, because I really don't want to be with a woman. I want to be able to masturbate to men, do you have any advice on how I can do that and forget about these other thoughts I get during this act?I have tried to search for an answer to this problem. The best I could come up with was when I was younger, my Mother used to have sex with my Father in my bed and in the living room when they thought we couldn't see and I've always known my Mother sleeps with other men as does my Father sleep with other women. I don't understand how that could have this effect, but maybe it has somehow. Because the things I think about when I'm masturbating involves incest even sometimes and women being used just for sex. I also get turned on thinking of Fathers having sex with their daughters and Mothers having sex with their sons but I could NEVER think of my parents in that way.Please do not judge me. I only ask for advice or help. Thank you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 January 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you, that really made me feel better about this whole thing. I don't have a bf, no. Maybe if I get one it'll help.
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reader, Griffo  +, writes (11 January 2009):
 It's only natural your most likley going through a phase of discovering your own sexuality. Most likley the reason why you fantisise about women is becasue you have most experience understanding female pleasures because you are a woman yourself. Once you begin to have more experiences with men, these thoughts could change.
As for the other thoughts, well its likley because you are simply comfortable with those people around you. Or; those thoughts.
Do you have a BF?
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