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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:Ok, me and my boyfriend have been with each other over a year now. We're in a long distance relationship and i love him very much. He's caring, funny and sweet but i always feel like something is missing and i dont know what. He's talked about marrying me and whilst he hasnt proposed yet, half of me says yes and half of me says 'can i live with that piece missing?'. I've recently been with him for 5 months and just returned home, since ive been home ive had a lot of male attention, even off my friends. One guy ive been texting a lot, and whilst it hasnt gone any further than that, he makes me feel good about myself and i cant stop flirting with him. I know im playing with fire, but what should i do? I love my boyfriend very much, but i know somethings missing. And this guy makes me feel good, but he's not my boyfriend.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (24 May 2010):
I suspect this is a sign that you're nowhere near ready to settle down, and that although your boyfriend is a good guy he's just not the One. The truth is, you're still young, and there is time for you to be out there having fun. Plenty of other guys will come along, and one will treat you well, love you and add the extra bit that's missing. I think you need to move on, have your fun and then settle when you do find the right guy.
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