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Playing it cold... But how *can* I win him?

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Question - (1 March 2006) 2 Answers - (Newest, 3 March 2006)
A female , anonymous writes:

I'm at uni and I met a guy who was after me.. we would talk alot and got along well finally we kissed and got intimate a few times.. we took it a step further than friendship.. now all of the sudden there's another girl he kissed.. he stopped calling cos he feels guilty and doesnt want to be a bastard..i told him to be honest with me and tell me if he wants her but he didn't answer he said to give him some time... he still flirts with me... i dont want to accept this but i want to make him run after me.. i relly like him.. I'm currently waiting for him to call and tell me what's gonna happen.. My friends tell me to play cold and pretend i thought it's over between me and him and move on... but i dont want to loose him.. What do i do? Today i saw him on the bus he spoke to me but sat behind with a friend.. i didn't turn around to talk to him.. he text me and said he would call later on tonight.. when i got off the buss at my stop i didnt look back to say goodbye.. i played it cold... what shall i do? i dont know the other girl but how can i win him?

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A female reader, smeedle United Kingdom +, writes (3 March 2006):

smeedle agony auntThis bloke want you both and you need to ditch him, he is just no good.

Move on with your life and keep him out of it.

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A female reader, shania United Kingdom +, writes (2 March 2006):

shania agony auntThis fella is playing games with you,one minute he is intimate with you...next he is kissing another girl...then he says he will call you...he cant make his mind up...i guess he is quite young so doesnt want anything too serious.If i was you i would leave it and let him do the running...if he is keen on you he will ask you out and be a proper boyfriend.If he is full of empty promises then i would walk away.Remember,there is plenty out there who wouldnt give you the run a round.

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