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writes: Im a student at the moment and living with four other people. I really like one of the guys I am living with and have done for about a year now. We all moved in together in September and I have grown to like him even more than I did last year.He had a girlfriend last year and things happened between us, nothing serious just an occasional kiss and a cuddle, but this year, he split up with his girlfriend. Now people we both know at uni have always saiD that we were perfect for each other and should get together but we have both just laughed it off. Things happened again between us this year, more serious things, we both agreed that it would be awkward in the house if we were to take it any further, so we left it. People we still saying that we should give it a go. We went back to normal, always with each other, getting on really well, flirting etc... but recently, he has been sleeping with another girl from uni and it's really getting to me. I'm wondering if there are no feelings there for me on his part anymore or if he is using this girl just for sex or if he is attempting to make me jealous. I'm scared that I have ruined my chances with him by not making any more moves on him etc.... I don't know whether to tell him how I feel or not? What should I do?
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reader, Virginiaac +, writes (21 December 2005):
Are you happy to continue being a friend or are you simply jealous that his attention is on another woman?
I would say he is happy to continue as he is: having you for sex when no-one else is around, and when there is, bye bye to you - temporarily.
Tell him how you feel - now - and wait no longer. Don't you move out, let him to that.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 December 2005): How much is it worth to you? Can you talk to him and let him know that you would be willing to live somewhere else? Would that really make a difference? Would that intimidate him?
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