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writes:This guy I've known for a year, has recently been flirting with me. He is younger, and at first I shrug it off and enjoyed the attention! But then I started to feel attracted to him and made it known, which I think kind of scared him a little bit. Well I stopped reciprocating the attention and cooled my heels. Went out with a couple of guys at different times, movies and dinner- no sex. It was nice, but I wasn't in the mood.Now my younger guy friend is kicking it up a notch, and he makes me hot!! But it's frustrating cos when I told him "look I told you I was interested,but you backed out!" he says I need to show him with passion that I want him. WTF?!?!What does that men, show him with passion? Is this code for something? the first time I told him I wanted to sleep with him he chickened out, dammit I still want him, but how do I go about it a second time? With passion...
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 April 2010): Hmm sounds like an intense make out session? Why didn't you just ask him what he meant o.o?
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (8 April 2010):
Before you do anything else, you need to get to know him more to find out what he is like in terms of actual personality. I would suggest seeing if he is interested in dating (if you're interested), and not just sex.
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reader, bitterblue  +, writes (8 April 2010):
 That's why I prefer being friends before dating, you would know more then, what to expect. Passion could mean he wants you to just reiterate the offer. I can't promise you it will be more than a fling, it sounds very much like one. If you are OK with that, go ahead. If you want more, turn the tables and let him wonder, do the guessing, do the chase. All this while you befriend him and learn more about him and his character. But I don't think you are after that, either.
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