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reader, AnonymousE6  +, writes (20 June 2024):
Honestly, maybe it’s just curiosity… I’m 35, my partners 45, but as you get older even a ten year age gap doesn’t feel like much. Im attracted to my partner but I do find men 20-30 years my senior very attractive, not just physically but maybe more emotionally. I’d say it’s either she’s curious about an older man, or perhaps age doesn’t matter at all? The main thing is you’re comfortable with it and it’s what you both want not just your partner.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 June 2024): Why do you need to have a threesome? Aren't you enough for each other? Personally I think it complicates things to bring in a third party.
Do you both want this threesome, or just one of you?
Maybe you could have a talk about this and patch up any holes in the relationship.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 June 2024): How would you have felt if the threesome had been you, your partner and a woman of 51? Sounds to me like she had always fancied this guy and only wants the threesome because of it - an excuse to cheat in plain site. IN my eyes if she - a young woman with estrogen levels that rocket - should be busy with you and not need any other man, there is something seriously wrong if she does, she is not being honest and open with you and it will get worse and worse till she walks off with this guy or someone else.
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reader, Youcannotbeserious +, writes (12 June 2024):
 Many a good tune can be played on an old fiddle, as the saying goes. He's had bags more experience than you and maybe she is hoping he can teach you something.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 June 2024): Since you want to spice up your bedroom activities and you think you are alright with it why don't you opt for a 4some with another couple of similar mindset ? I think it would be more balanced for all round.
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reader, kenny +, writes (11 June 2024):
 Bringing a third party into a relationship can more often than not a deal breaker.
Maybe the next one will be someone who is 21 and will give her an amazing time in the bedroom that she will become romantically smitten with leaving you out in the cold.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 June 2024): Don't bother with this threesome.
It isn't worth it. You don't need to bring any one else into your relationship.
And why do you want to be the subject of pub gossip?
Maybe this guy wants to punch your lights out for touting your girlfriend like the local prostitute.
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (11 June 2024):
 Maybe she thinks that a guy that "old" can't keep it up for long so it will be over faster...
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reader, Myau  +, writes (11 June 2024):
 She had daddy issues.
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