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writes:Their is this common perception that when a girl has sex for the first time that it will hurt and will be really uncomfortable and far from romantic. Although I'm sure this would be true, in many cases, however don't let it put you off from your first time because it isnt like this for everyone and doesnt have to be like it for you. Let me tell you about my first time experience...It didn't hurt. Not at all. It was a tiny bit uncomfortable but that was it. I didn't bleed either. So why did I not experience much pain at all and not bleed, if so many girls do? Well firstly, these days not all girls bleed when they first have sex because it can be broken before from either exercising, inserting tampons or masturbation. The pain issue- I was really relaxed when I first had sex because I was with my bf who I trust alot and who I love and who I know loves me too. This help put my mind at ease a fair bit. Not to mention plenty of foreplay before, to turn you on. I suggest to any girl who is thinking of having sex for the first time to talk to her bf about it before hand. Discuss your thoughts and feelings and tell your bf to take it easy- meaning to go slowly because if he goes to fast to quickly when its your first time, it may hurt. Don't be afraid to say 'oww that hurt' if it does a bit either, because if you dont say anything, then he may continue doing whatever hes doing and the pain would get worse. I'm not saying your first time won't hurt at all, I cant guarantee you to be as lucky as me, however all Im saying is in order to reduce any pain- relax, go slowly, have plenty of forelay and be comfortable in what you are doing.
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