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writes:Me and my girlfriend have been dating for around 2-3 years and we just started moving farther with fingering and on valentines day she gave me a handjob for the first time, which was exciting since she NEVER does anything to me. its more me doing things to her which is extremely frustrating. Everytime we decide to do stuff im always the one doing the foreplay and then when i feel shes going to do something to me she says lets cuddle or immediately stops. and then at times she says lets lay off on doing stuff so basically, she gets it whenever she wants to and i dont get anything. ive told her this and she said she understands and would try more but i havent seen anything. what do i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 April 2009): I'm not too sure about it, but she may be shy when it comes to touching you. She could be scared she can't do it right or when she does start giving you'll take it for a while and then leave her. That is just something to consider, I'm not very sure.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 March 2009): I think you and your girlfriend seem to be very young. I dont know what type of environment you guys comes from but I can tell you I have seen in the description of your girlfriend some of my own characteristics. My fiancee and I have been together for almost 4 years and I have to tell you that we have been through this same situation. I am more of a romantic girl and he is much more passionate. Most of the times I would start playing with him with the intention of having fun, but I gotta tell you for us girls is very easy to just stop the game right when we feel it is taking a road we might not feel very comfortable taking, specially at such a young age. I think you should talk to her, ask her how she feels and what is it that she wants to do and not to do. Like that you both know where you stand in your relationship. Hope I could help you.
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