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Our sex life is suffering due to my fatigue? any ideas?

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Question - (4 August 2011) 1 Answers - (Newest, 4 August 2011)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

So, my fiance and I have been together for nearly 7 years. The sex has been great and I love him more than ever, but we have started having issues. I am a full-time college student, and he just graduated and is trying very hard to find a good job, therefore adding a lot of stress into the mix.

Our sex-life has been suffering on my end due to fatigue. I want to please him so badly, but it seems that every time we actually get right to it, I get too tired to follow through. He doesn't mind being on top all of the time, but I know that he wishes I could take charge every now and then. It has gotten so bad at times that I can't even finish him off. I tell him to finish me first, but sometimes he gets carried away.

Is there anything that I can do to help combat the fatigue, or at least push past it to be able to be the dominant woman that I used to be in our intimate setting? If not, then is there anything new and creative that I can employ that will make the process better for him, but doesn't use up too much energy?

I want to satisfy him so badly, and I know he would never complain, but I can tell that he leaves incomplete at the end of the night sometimes.

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A male reader, DoubleM United States +, writes (4 August 2011):

DoubleM agony auntA visit to a doctor may be advisable - specifically for a blood test. You may be somewhat anemic, which is frequent for young women in some situations. A multivitamin might help, but if anemia is a culprit, multis may not include iron. Be careful not to take too much iron caps.

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